don’t forget: you can change your life at any time

Kayla Tomas
2 min readAug 18, 2021

it’s that simple.

you can quit your job.

you can go vegan.

you can delete your social media accounts.

you can start working out.

you can let go of a toxic relationship.

you can change career paths.

you can move across the country.

you can release the notion that you have to be someone that you simply are not.

you can.

All it takes is a decision.

Making a decision can be extremely difficult, I am not discrediting that. However, if you look at your decisions with the best possible outcome, it becomes easy.

I’m a recovering perfectionist. With the role of perfectionist comes A TON of responsibility. And negativity. Holy moly so much negativity. I was a terror to be around. And I own that. I saw everything with the worst possible outcome and I was just…miserable and burnt out. But, you can change this mindset.

You hold the paintbrush to your life- nobody else. You are the artist. Why not paint yourself a picture with the best outcome? Forget washable water paints, make a mess. I’m talking splat-that-shit-all-over-the-wall-and-don’t- even-think-about-covering-it-up kind of mess.

It’s your life. What does that look like for you?

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